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Friday, 13 November 2009


  • Tommy turned one month old yesterday. He's sleeping in his crib more and is taking a liking to the swing. We had a couple of nights last week where he slept for chunks of four or five hours, it was quite nice. We must have become too optimistic, because he has been fussy and gassy at night for the past couple of nights. Last night he was awake from 11pm until about 7am crying every time one of us tried to place him in his crib... it was a long night.

    He's grown noticeably to Bill and me, but we weren't sure how to show it through photos.
    These three are from when he was just a couple of days old:



    These are from last evening:
     
     

    Same position on Bill's lap. I guess you'll just have to see him in person to really see the difference.


    Some other photos from this week:



    I almost caught his smile here! Almost!

     

    Subtly flipping Auntie Jackie off...







Saturday, 07 November 2009

  • Last week my due date came and went. I was actually sad that day. Not sad because I missed being pregnant, I don't. Well, I do miss having the belly, but I don't miss the swollen feet, back aches, indigestion and overwhelming fatigue. I think I was sad because I had spent so much time and energy preparing for Tommy's arrival that I never got a chance to take it all in when it was happening. It went by in a hurried flash and it didn't really hit me that it was over until my sleep deprived mind realized that my due date was actually here. Thankfully, I have an adorable child that likes to cuddle and make funny noises and funny faces at me. Those little moments make me feel so much better.

    Mom spent the weekend with us over Halloween. Bill and I had hoped that Tommy would be born before Halloween so we could dress him up. He arrived in plenty of time, but infant costumes are all too big for him. So we opted for a themed outfit rather than a real costume. I figure next year he should be starting to walk, so we can get him a real costume.

     

    He hated wearing the hat and the booties didn't stay on at all. I was happy to find a Halloween-ish onesie that actually fit him.

      Passed out on Jackie's...uh... chest.

    Jackie and Arthur joined us Halloween night. Jackie was dressed as a 1980s Madonna. We ordered takeout from a new restaurant, George's Greek Cafe, that has opened just down the street from us. It's part of a very small chain of restaurants that Bill and I are big fans of. They have restaurants in downtown Long Beach and in Belmont Shores. We all shared large plates of lamb chops, gyros, rice, pita, lamb kabobs, hummus, Greek salad, calamari, Greek meatballs, dolmathes and plenty of tzatziki. Mom even picked up a bottle of their private label Pinot Grigio. We all ate way too much while Jackie and Bill handed out candy to the local trick-or-treaters. We went through four bags of candy by 8:30pm and called it quits. We were even being stingy and only giving out one piece per kid. There are a lot of kids in our neighborhood!

    The other day I tried to take some more "artistic" photos of my little guy. He was in a good mood and I got a couple of decent shots. Taking photos of babies is much harder than it seems! Of course, I learned the hard way that I should have at least left him in a diaper. He managed to pee on the blanket he was laying on... a stream that shot clear over his body and across the sofa. And he didn't get a drop on him! I figured that was a good time to stop and do some laundry.









    We're looking forward to the upcoming week of Thanksgiving. Bill and I will drive up to the Bay Area with the baby and spend the week up there visiting with as many friends and family as possible. I'm finding it quite convenient that I'm on maternity leave through the major winter holidays.


Monday, 02 November 2009


  • A quick update before the little guy wakes up... which will probably be when I decide to lay down in a few minutes.

    He's doing great despite preferring to sleep during the day and be awake at night. He's still small enough that most of the newborn sized clothes are still too big for him. The only ones that fit are the Gerber brand onesies. Thankfully we have a bunch of them. He still doesn't like sleeping on his back, which is posing a challenge for us when getting him to sleep in his crib. His favorite place to sleep is still on someone's lap or chest. He loves to start fussing whenever I try to eat.

    We've had a few visitors this past week:

    Krista stopped by last weekend to say hello and be formally introduced to Tommy.


    Uncle Eugene and Uncle Terry both made quick visits.

    Eugene was bummed that I didn't say anything about being in labor when he was here last.


    We took Tommy to In-N-Out for the first time.


    Not like he got to eat anything...

    A few people have asked why I go back and forth calling him TJ and Tommy. To me, a nickname hasn't stuck yet. I prefer to call him Tommy instead of TJ, but I don't have any problem with other people calling him TJ. Bill calls him TJ, Tommy and Thomas, it really varies. I'm sure a name will evolve in time. Until then, he goes by many names.

Tuesday, 27 October 2009

  • First Bath


    Since Tommy's umbilical cord came off while he was in the hospital, (I was very happy to be there when it happened) we figured he could use a real bath once he got home... to wash off the hospital smell. The fact that his diaper leaked all over him soon after we got home just motivated us more.

    He was alright with the water at first...





    then... not so much.





    Overall he did really well, and smelled so nice afterwards!







Sunday, 25 October 2009

  • Earlier in the week we were having some trouble with Tommy's high bilirubin levels... well, after two days with the biliblanket, his level continued to rise. So, our pediatrician requested we bring him to the hospital for a couple of nights under the UV lights to bring that level down again. Being under the UV lights causes his body to product more vitamin D and makes it easier for his still-developing liver to flush out the extra bilirubin.

    It was incredibly difficult for us to bring him into the NICU, knowing we were going to have to leave him there for a couple of nights. The nurses wouldn't let me stay with him when they started his IV, so I had to wait outside. They weren't going to let me breastfeed him for the first night as breastmilk actually makes it harder to bring the bilirubin level down. It's very easy for the body to digest, so the bilirubin ends up back in the bloodstream instead of being flushed out in his diaper. This is why jaundice occurs more often in breastfed babies. So, for the first twelve hours, they had him drinking formula. We were there for his first feeding and I actually couldn't do it, Bill had to do it. Tommy had to remain in the isolette, under the lights while he was fed, so I couldn't hold him. He didn't like the formula and he didn't like the unfamiliar nipple, and when he cried, there was absolutely nothing I could do to soothe him. I really struggled to hold it together. I really didn't want to fall apart at the NICU, I knew there were much sicker babies in there than my little guy. When we finally got him settled and asleep, we left, and I felt I could fall apart in the car.

    The next morning, the doctor called to let us know his bilirubin level was down from 22 to 16. Because it had dropped so well, we could bring in pumped breastmilk for him to eat and I could breastfeed him when I was there. This made me feel SO much better. Plus, when we arrived, he was doing really well snoozing in his isolette.

    We snapped some photos of him under the lights wearing his cool shades:







    We had hoped to bring him home on Friday, but the doctor wanted his bilirubin to be below 10. Every morning and every evening, we went there for two feedings, bringing frozen breastmilk with us. The NICU nurses were wonderful and kept us informed as to what was going on.

    We were finally able to bring him home yesterday afternoon after hanging around in the NICU for a few hours until the doctor issued his discharge orders. The nurse hooked us up with extra diapers and other goodies from the supply cabinet. She was really awesome.



    Finally home!



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